Comments for Li'l CyndiLu Who? http://lilcyndiluwho.wordpress.com a mom, a boy, and a horse Mon, 02 Nov 2009 20:24:56 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on Pity party, table for one by Amira http://lilcyndiluwho.wordpress.com/2009/10/30/pity-party-table-for-one/#comment-1003 Amira Mon, 02 Nov 2009 20:24:56 +0000 http://lilcyndiluwho.wordpress.com/?p=2413#comment-1003 Ohhhhh! Well, PHEW! Glad it wasn't us. Still, we want to not do that again. ;) Ohhhhh! Well, PHEW! Glad it wasn’t us. Still, we want to not do that again. ;)

]]> Comment on Pity party, table for one by lilcyndiluwho http://lilcyndiluwho.wordpress.com/2009/10/30/pity-party-table-for-one/#comment-1002 lilcyndiluwho Mon, 02 Nov 2009 19:39:54 +0000 http://lilcyndiluwho.wordpress.com/?p=2413#comment-1002 Amira, it totally was NOT you guys! I just got an email from Mindy thinking I meant y'all too. NOT not NOT!! LOL Amira, it totally was NOT you guys! I just got an email from Mindy thinking I meant y’all too. NOT not NOT!!

LOL

]]> Comment on Pity party, table for one by Amira http://lilcyndiluwho.wordpress.com/2009/10/30/pity-party-table-for-one/#comment-1001 Amira Mon, 02 Nov 2009 06:24:21 +0000 http://lilcyndiluwho.wordpress.com/?p=2413#comment-1001 *Ahem* Hey, Cyndi. I think I know of who you refer in one of your paragraphs. And, yes, it was an oversight. All I can say is that you WERE missed, I'm sorry, and we must try to all get together again. For real. *Ahem* Hey, Cyndi. I think I know of who you refer in one of your paragraphs. And, yes, it was an oversight.

All I can say is that you WERE missed, I’m sorry, and we must try to all get together again. For real.

]]> Comment on Pity party, table for one by anngoldenberg http://lilcyndiluwho.wordpress.com/2009/10/30/pity-party-table-for-one/#comment-1000 anngoldenberg Mon, 02 Nov 2009 05:20:48 +0000 http://lilcyndiluwho.wordpress.com/?p=2413#comment-1000 I'm sorry, Cyn. Don't ever forget how much you are loved. I'm sorry that we couldn't get to the school function on Friday night (thanks to Neil being late and Flossie just being) because I would have pummeled those bitches with Tastykakes. I’m sorry, Cyn. Don’t ever forget how much you are loved. I’m sorry that we couldn’t get to the school function on Friday night (thanks to Neil being late and Flossie just being) because I would have pummeled those bitches with Tastykakes.

]]> Comment on Pity party, table for one by lilcyndiluwho http://lilcyndiluwho.wordpress.com/2009/10/30/pity-party-table-for-one/#comment-999 lilcyndiluwho Sat, 31 Oct 2009 18:39:08 +0000 http://lilcyndiluwho.wordpress.com/?p=2413#comment-999 Nina, I am so sorry. With your background you should come to Colorado and get a GAL contract. We're independent contractos so that political BS doesn't apply, you can set your own hours, and make more money. UGH. I'll keep you in my prayers.. Nina, I am so sorry. With your background you should come to Colorado and get a GAL contract. We’re independent contractos so that political BS doesn’t apply, you can set your own hours, and make more money. UGH. I’ll keep you in my prayers..

]]> Comment on Pity party, table for one by Shannon http://lilcyndiluwho.wordpress.com/2009/10/30/pity-party-table-for-one/#comment-998 Shannon Sat, 31 Oct 2009 15:15:03 +0000 http://lilcyndiluwho.wordpress.com/?p=2413#comment-998 Holy crap. That is unbelievable. I am neither a parent, nor single, but in my dealings with parents and families, I know that one of the absolute BEST parents I work with is a single mother, and has been for most of the child's life. So sorry you were treated this way. Holy crap. That is unbelievable. I am neither a parent, nor single, but in my dealings with parents and families, I know that one of the absolute BEST parents I work with is a single mother, and has been for most of the child’s life. So sorry you were treated this way.

]]> Comment on Pity party, table for one by Nina C http://lilcyndiluwho.wordpress.com/2009/10/30/pity-party-table-for-one/#comment-997 Nina C Sat, 31 Oct 2009 14:35:16 +0000 http://lilcyndiluwho.wordpress.com/?p=2413#comment-997 i'm sorry. that bites. I often feel super lonely and wonder why my married friends with kids who say they want to have play dates and such never do. this week one of my friend's husbands was traveling for work and she was bitching and moaning about having to have groceries delivered...sigh...he apologized for making her a single parent this week. made me jealous. then i got fired yesterday. my managing attorney told me months ago my situation was different in regards to leave since I was a single parent with no family around unlike others in our office. when i asked the director to clarify that as it seemed discriminatory to me he never responded and very soon after that met with me to tell me all these complaints about me from case workers and such. its been a hellish few months knowing they really wanted to fire me then...so now...gotta figure out our next step. I'm thinking of moving back east, I think people are more accepting of others situations there and more honest. I don't play the nice to your face, mean behind your back political shit of most westerners I've met...sigh...kinda bites though i’m sorry. that bites.

I often feel super lonely and wonder why my married friends with kids who say they want to have play dates and such never do. this week one of my friend’s husbands was traveling for work and she was bitching and moaning about having to have groceries delivered…sigh…he apologized for making her a single parent this week. made me jealous.

then i got fired yesterday. my managing attorney told me months ago my situation was different in regards to leave since I was a single parent with no family around unlike others in our office. when i asked the director to clarify that as it seemed discriminatory to me he never responded and very soon after that met with me to tell me all these complaints about me from case workers and such. its been a hellish few months knowing they really wanted to fire me then…so now…gotta figure out our next step. I’m thinking of moving back east, I think people are more accepting of others situations there and more honest. I don’t play the nice to your face, mean behind your back political shit of most westerners I’ve met…sigh…kinda bites though

]]> Comment on Pity party, table for one by Kally http://lilcyndiluwho.wordpress.com/2009/10/30/pity-party-table-for-one/#comment-996 Kally Sat, 31 Oct 2009 08:13:44 +0000 http://lilcyndiluwho.wordpress.com/?p=2413#comment-996 Just read your blog finally.Wow that song you're singing.... yeah I thought I wrote it... I certainly know all the words and the dance that goes with it. People suck sometimes. I know you know this but I 'll say it anyway. No matter what our path is in life it is a hard journey (if we are lucky a long one). The only thing that makes it tolerable are friends that know who you are: You are not trying to steal someone's wore out old man, You are independent, You are capable and You love your son and provide a stress free wonderful life for him. Be proud of where you are in your life... no need for pity. Pity those weak old married women who can't imagine their lives without a man. They would fall apart. Not You. You are strong. You can take a punch and not fall down. Tears yes it helps balance our stress hormones and PH levels( not a sign of weakness a true sign of survival). Bath time is awesome, n'est pas? :) Keep smiling! Just read your blog finally.Wow that song you’re singing…. yeah I thought I wrote it… I certainly know all the words and the dance that goes with it. People suck sometimes. I know you know this but I ‘ll say it anyway. No matter what our path is in life it is a hard journey (if we are lucky a long one). The only thing that makes it tolerable are friends that know who you are: You are not trying to steal someone’s wore out old man, You are independent, You are capable and You love your son and provide a stress free wonderful life for him. Be proud of where you are in your life… no need for pity. Pity those weak old married women who can’t imagine their lives without a man. They would fall apart. Not You. You are strong. You can take a punch and not fall down. Tears yes it helps balance our stress hormones and PH levels( not a sign of weakness a true sign of survival). Bath time is awesome, n’est pas? :) Keep smiling!

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